hard but its life

     It's crazy to think about tomorrow's. Never know what it holds. And we all get delt our cards.... it's not what they are but more on how you react to them.

    Sometimes we take things for granted. Or maybe just dont take the time to realize the small things. It's what we pay attention to.  Will it be a positive thing that day or the worst? Train yourself to think positive. And always go into the day open minded. You never know.

       We all will deal with something hard in life. It will be different story for each of us..  but reality in the end our ending will all be the same. Have faith never know where you'll end up.

       With this being said I recently did a video of my mom getting older and nature taking over... it's hard concept to grasp to realize the person you looked up to, relied on, and where raised from... slowly look at you for the return help. Sucks. That's circle of life I guess

   My mom is forgetting stuff and having early signs of dementia. She's 69. It runs in my family and I hate to see this happen to her. Her dad ( my pap ) is 90 and almost feels guilty or just watch his daughter have worse off health than himself. I can't imagine his hard it is for my pap. Loosing his wife, slowly friends passing and now watching your daughter sick and unable to help. He lost his first daughter in a tragic accident when she was a teenager.

    If your going through this. It's hard I know. Keep smiling and give back even if they forget you still remember how much you relied on them without question. Lifes a journey we never know where we will end up. Stay humble.
    
       I have much respect to doctors, nurses, CNA, or anyone dealing with the elderly. Much respect I couldn't do it, I'm too emotional. But I'm so glad we have these people who can!

    Someone with Alzheimer's may teach us... to slow down it won't always be here, to pay attention to the small things. And who cares about yesterday or tomorrow focus on right now. Enjoy it. Treasure it. Soon you'll look back and hopefully you'll have a great memory.

Whatever you are going through, keep going you can make it, whatever you think about try to look for a positive. Be kind... someone you talk to rudely, they might be struggling with something you know nothing about... stay kind.

Take care of each other.... focus on your story, it will be a hard thing to go through...